Featured Blog

(I typed "random logo i stole off the internet" in Google Images, and this is the first thing that came up.) 

Sometimes I'll get all excited about an idea and make big plans, and foolishly tell people about them. Life immediately gets extremely busy and complicated so that I don't have time to follow through, and once again, it can laugh in my face. If you want to, you can read my original post about my Featured Blog feature, and laugh at me, too. I'm just now giving the recognition I promised nearly four months ago.

And the first Featured Blog goes to autism blogger and fellow misanthrope... (Is that an oxymoron? Are there rules for misanthropy? Go ahead, make some, I dare you. That should get you about as far as making rules for autism.) Where was I? Oh, yes, fellow autism blogger and misanthrope (and that's what I like about her) Jillsmo at Yeah. Good Times. Her blog defies description, so I'll just copy the introduction from her profile:

I have 2 beautiful boys: Child 1 is 10 and is autistic. Child 2 is 6 and OMGISN'T. I have this blog because lots of random shit goes through my head throughout the normal course of a day and I need a place to put it. Mostly I just ramble incoherently about nothing. I also curse a lot. Sorry, Mom.

You've been warned.

There are a number of interesting features on her blog, but my favorite is "All Kids Do That". If you have a child on the autism spectrum, you deal with some challenging behaviors, not to mention some challenging sensitivities that set off challenging behaviors. The thing is, and this is why autism parents stick together, when you mention these issues, the average parent of neurotypical children (and many professionals who have limited experience with autism) will either disbelieve you, or mistake your child's behaviors and sensitivities for garden variety childish behavior and whimsical preferences, and either suggest that "all kids do that" and you just need to learn to live with it, or give you detailed (and completely useless) instructions on how to fix the problem. It's like calling your boss from your hospital bed to tell him you've been admitted to the hospital with pneumonia, and having him say, "I had a runny nose once. Just take some cold pills and be back at work tomorrow."

Yes, problems with picky eating, doctor visits, hating school, not sleeping, and so on are not uncommon, but with autism, we are talking about these issues amplified by several orders of magnitude. Really, if you have a friend or family member dealing with autism, and want to have appropriate empathy, or if you are a professional or studying to be one, and want to understand, until you have lived with autism, you will never completely understand, but "All Kids Do That" will give you an inkling of what we deal with every day.

I have a deep respect for professionals who work day after day with children (and adults) on the autism spectrum but, if you get to go home at night and not deal with it for eight hours or more, it's not the same. If you have a child with autism and feel completely alone, we understand. Our kids may have different issues, but we've experienced them at a level of intensity beyond the nightmares of most people.

So read Yeah. Good Times. I strongly recommend starting with "All Kids Do That." Jillsmo, you can come claim the award, copy and paste the logo, and do whatever you want with it. Or if you don't want to post it on your blog, you can just leave a comment here, so I know you read my post. K? Or just totally ignore me. Whatever.

What goes around, comes around

Kelly from Unplanned Trip To Holland has just given me the Liebster Blog award. So of course, I had to go look up the rules so I could break them. Except she didn't post them. She did, however post her answers to a list of questions that I assume were part of the award process. They were the exact same questions that were part of the Sunshine Award. Which I just got last week. In fact, she tagged me for this award in the comments on that post. Strange things are afoot at the Circle K.

Tracing it further back, I did find one rule about limiting the award to bloggers with fewer than a certain number of followers, but there was some disagreement about whether that number was 20 or 200. Wait a minute! I can't even keep up with reading all my blogs, and now I have to keep track of how many followers they have?

Hmm, I do kinda like the idea of an award for the little guy. Especially since some  new bloggers come along, follow my blog, post comments, and within a year have WAY MORE FOLLOWERS than I do! But I really do like her blog. It's like, one of my favorite favorites. And she probably didn't know that I had just answered these questions because I was a smartass and just posted my answers without the questions.

Italia what Ima do. I'll post my answers again, this time, first the answers, then the questions. I usually just say, "Read the blogs in my sidebar." I started a long post saying something nice about each of the blogs in my sidebar, but it was getting so long no one would read it all, assuming I ever finished writing it. Instead, I'm starting a new feature where I choose a "Featured Blog" from time to time, (basically, whenever I feel like it) and post nice things about the blogger, along with this random logo I stole off the internet.

(I typed "random logo i stole off the internet" in Google Images, and this is the first thing that came up.) They can come claim the award, copy and paste the logo, and do whatever they want with it. Or if they don't want to post it on their blogs, they can just leave a comment here, so I know they read my post. K? If they don't see it, serves them right for not reading my blog!

The answer is:
Cyan.
The question is:
What is your favorite color?

Mama Bear.
What is your favorite animal?

I agree with Dee's answer.
What is your favorite number?

Coffee.
What is your favorite drink?

I've never Twittered. I was about to quit FB when Social Fixer came along and made FB tolerable. Now I can keep up with all my friends if I want to, but I hardly ever check FB. I have 491 FB friends, and it's just the same people posting the same kind of stuff over and over.
FB or Twitter?

Reading.
What is your passion?

Giving presents. To myself.
(Do you prefer) Giving or receiving presents?

July 4, 1776.
What is your Favorite day?

Freshly ground whole wheat.
What is your Favorite Flower?

Coming Soon: Featured Blogs